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Dear Dumari,

I hope you are enjoying your Summer and the extra time you have with your child(ren). I am truly appreciative of the lazy Summer mornings when we stay in our pj's until late, then go outside to play "catch" and end up at our neighborhood's pool for a refreshing dip.

I know that the happier and more grateful I feel, the more good things I allow in my life. I am thankful to know how the Law of Attraction makes this happen. I am excited to share with you how you can do the same!

This issue features "Help! I'm at My Wits End with My Child! Using the Law of Attraction to Help You Parent," the third article of the Parenting through Your Heart series. This article explains what the Law of Attraction is and how you can use it to help you experience what you desire at home.

Also, check out the helpful resources below. They will enhance your understanding of how your thoughts and emotions are powerful magnets that attract things, people and experiences to you.

Thank you for the many great questions you have sent me asking for suggestions on how to make your parenting experience more joyful (and less stressful). Thanks to your requests, I am starting an "ASK Dumari!" section in this newsletter. Check out this insightful Question & Answer section for the first time in this issue. To ask me a question, click here.

Blessings of Love,
Dumari

 "Help! I Am At My Wits End With My Child!" Using The LAW OF ATTRACTION to Help You Parent.
 Parenting through Your Heart (Part III)

purple sunset As parents, we've all been there. We catch our child doing something that we disapprove of. We get upset. We tell them not to do it and why. We set the rules and warn them of the negative consequence if they break them. We come up with strategies to prevent them from doing it again. We worry and hope it works. Then, a week, a day or an hour later, they do it again! And again! And again!

Sound familiar?

Did you know that what you are thinking, saying and doing to prevent "unwanted" behaviors in your child may actually be contributing to them doing it more?

What you focus on expands. This is the basis of the most powerful law in the universe: the Law of Attraction.

 

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 ASK Dumari!
 "When I say, 'be careful' to my children, am I instilling fear?"

ask dumari question mark When we say "be careful," we are usually focused on what could go wrong. We are feeling nervous, anxious or worried about what might happen to our child. This is why we remind them to "be careful."

Of course you want them to be safe! But you can become aware of what you are attracting by the way you feel. When you say "be careful," do you feel good or do you feel bad ?

If you feel good, you are attracting what you want. If you feel bad, your fear is attracting to you that which you do NOT want.

In order to use the Law of Attraction deliberately in a situation where you would say "be careful," like when your child is at the playground balancing on some logs, you can try the following steps.

 

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 Resource 1: Your Destiny Switch (book)
 Master Your Key Emotions and Attract the Life of Your Dreams (by Peggy McColl)

your destiny switch book This book is truly a god-send! It helps you understand how you can use your emotions to tap into an endless source of creative power within you and attract the life of your dreams.

 

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 Resource 2: The Law of Attraction (book)
 The Teachings of Abraham (by Jerry & Esther Hicks)

law of attraction book This is the best book I've found that describes in simple terms what the Law of Attraction is and easy ways to use it deliberately on a day-to-day basis. (It also comes in audio CDs).

 

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Blessings of Love,

Dumari SELF Portrait
Dumari Dancoes
Children Lights

 

 
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